Sunday, April 5, 2009

What makes a bff

Every girl needs a bbf. In fact every girl needs the best bff possible. Now this isn't a guide to being one, just a few simple things I think makes a great bff. A good bff shouldn't ever talk about you behind your back.... EVER, about anything or anyone. All secrets shared between you two are just that, secrets! The other thing that peeves me is when a supposed "bff" or even a supposed "friend" talks to your bf behind your back. And I don't mean a simple "hey, what's up". I mean a "hey, let's hang out" or "hey, I have a few extra tickets for something, do you want to go?" NO WAY! And if you're bff is going to do that, they need to ask you first. Now asking is always ok.... And it's not being mean, it's just being courteous. I mean you wouldn't want someone doing that to you behind your back. A bff shouldn't ever talk about you behind your back. I think that's the biggest no no. Being a bff means always being there for someone, at any time. Also, I don't think bff's should use eachother. If your bff pays for a meal, then you should pay for the next one. I think it's really stupid when bff's compete with eachother. Why would you want to do that? Another thing is, don't put your bff down. Also be honest, even if it's like "oh he doesn't like you" or "that dress doesn't look good on you". Honesty is always the best policy. And don't ever lie to eachother. A bff is someone who will always be there for you.... all the time... that's what bff means "Best Friends Forever".. duh. : ) xoxo

2 comments:

  1. jajaja sooo trueee... and I would like to add that a true bff would understand you.. like even if you dont make it to hang outs or stuff like that, it doesnt make you less of a friend. im just saying a true bff will always be bff regardless of the time you may spend together...

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  2. ...and someone who you can just call and say..."lunch. same tiem. same place." She will know exactly where to meet you and when. And? They will love your pets no matter how much white dog hair gets on their black cute new pants.

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