Monday, April 6, 2009
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder...
I believe that everyone is beautiful, even in their own ways. There are a lot of people who aren't beautiful on the inside.. ok ok I'm getting off topic.. My topic for today is going to be self esteem. It's a really big issue and even I am a victim of it.. and not a lot of people know it. Even if a lot of people tell you that you're beautiful it doesn't seem to help... and girls now a days grow up thinking they need to be beautiful, thin, supermodel to even get somewhere in life and that just isn't true..... What makes someone beautiful, in my opinion, is what's on the inside.... If you are an ugly, mean person, then it just makes you ugly on the outside... You can be overweight and obese but it doesn't matter. You don't need to be blonde or have big boobs or a big butt... it doesn't matter. It doesn't matter if you have a cleft lip or a crooked eye or messed up teeth or have down syndrome or even just because you are of a certain race!.. Every man and woman is beautiful just the way that God created them! Everybody should have good self esteem and feel good about themselves... even if the writer of this blog (ahem ahem ME) doesn't feel that way. People SHOULDN'T pick on ANYBODY for any reason what so ever... some people don't even realize how much they are hurting someone by calling them names or making fun of them... It hurts and it's just crazy mean. So everyone be nice and love eachother. : ) xoxo
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I have worked with some of the most physically beautiful people in the world but also the most hateful. Just because you are stunning on the outside doesn't mean you are beautiful on the inside. Honestly when some of these people opened their mouths they became the ugliest I have ever seen.
ReplyDeleteWhen I was younger...probably like the author of this Blog...I thought being pretty was really important. Not till I got older and (a-hem..cough cough)...more mature did I realize that true beauty comes from within and if people don't see that in you then you are hanging with the wrong crowd. Now I surround myself with all types of people and the things that I find most attractive? Sense of humor, kindness to others and animals...respect and humility. Kind of like Judge Judy says, "Beauty fades..." It's true...it does fade on the outside but what is on the inside will be what creates really meaningful friendships and relationships.
Of course to end on a light note...my husband is really hot...but he also is super funny and smart and he respects me and believes in me. Oh...and he's hot.
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xoxo
Beauty is what people think of it. Philosophers have discussed this for ages... what it's beautiful or ugly. There was a time where being beautiful didn't mean thin, it meant well proportioned, voluptious, round, fat... call it what you want. But times change and society's perception of beauty changes with it. Now it means thin, and tall... I'm petite and not necessarily thin, but true happiness comes when you feel comfortable in your skin, and thus deriving beauty. I feel beautiful now, not because I look like a model, but because I love the skin I'm in... Love makes a person beautiful. If not, watch a pregnant woman, and dare tell her that she looks ugly. I dare say, that the love that shows through her eyes, makes her incredibly happy. And therein lies beauty, at its purest.
ReplyDeleteMy two cents. There is truth in what everyone has said, there is something that radiates from a person with good self esteem but as usual insecurities do creep in. i think that like the author of this blog and myself, we have to learn to reinforce our self esteem and truly find it from within, otherwise, like the author said, it doesnt matter if someone else tells you that you are beautiful or if you say to someone else... All of us are beautiful and how Miz Aguilera say no matter what they say, we are beautiful....
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